to not being hurt

 Why can we just say it what we want and what is bother us?

why we should keep guessing what is going on your mind and mine. 

Why don't you just say it to me first, instead of being angry and go, leaving me here feeling guilty?

We are human, we can hear and talk, Allah give us ability to maintain relationship, to not being hurt by each other

Astaghfirullah al'adzim.....